Genesis 29-40
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There’s one of those sentences in today’s reading that you read, pass over, and don’t think much about it unless you stop to do so. It’s in Genesis 29:20, and it says, “So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.”
Now, my wife and I met when we were young. I was 16, she was 15. We were dating within about six months, and didn’t marry until we were 22 and 21 years old. I used to think that six years was a long time to have waited for my wife. Of course, back then, I wasn’t waiting for my wife. I was just dating my girlfriend. (If you ask Keelie, it may have been different for her!) Now that we’ve been married 6½ years, it doesn’t seem quite so long.
Jacob, on the other hand, knew that Rachel was the girl for him. He saw her, and knew right away he wanted to marry her. When he began his seven years of service to earn the right to marry her, he was waiting for his wife! But notice what it says – “and they seemed to him but a few days.” Indeed, even the passage itself makes it seem this way. We have 19 verses that cover at most a few days, and then seven years pass in one verse!
Jacob had a genuine love for Rachel, one that was shown through his dedicated service to her father. He could have backed out at anytime, deciding to go find a wife that wouldn’t require so much effort to marry! Instead, he showed his devotion to her by sticking it out for seven years.
As we saw, he ended up getting tricked by his father-in-law, and had to serve another seven years to get Rachel. So, in actuality, he spent fourteen years of his life working for another man just for the privilege calling Rachel his wife!
That’s devotion!
I hope and pray that I show that kind of devotion to my wife. I know I didn’t during our dating years as an ignorant teenage guy. My hope is that every Christian man would show that kind of devotion to his wife, and that every Christian woman would expect that kind of devotion before marrying a man.
Let’s show our love through our actions. Whether it’s our family, our friends, our brothers and sisters in Christ, or our loved ones; let’s give them our devotion. God showed His love to us by sending us His Son, and we ought to love each other in the same manner: with our actions (1 John 4).